It’s an unsaid fact, but most girls like it when boys come over and flirt with them. Flirting is a definite healthy way to interact with someone from the opposite sex, if you’re doing it right that is. But there’s a really thin line between healthy and harmless flirting and flirting where you seem like a creep to her.
Appropriate Touching Is Good
Don’t get me wrong. I don’t mean touch her and make her feel uncomfortable, but some sort of bodily contact is important to establish a connection and affection.
Approach Her Normally
It’s time to approach her and don’t make it seem like a movie, waiting for the music to start playing, while you go in slo-mo, and everyone stares at you. Nope, that’s not how it’s done, mate. Just be confident, maintain that eye-contact and that smile and start with the simplest opening line like ‘hey’!
Always Keep A Smile
Your smile is a warm giveaway of the fact that you’re interested in her and you’d love to get to know her better. Even if you suck at flirting, just keep a charming smile alive on your face. It delivers a lot of confidence and exuberance and she’ll know you’re a pleasant guy, just trying your best to flirt and she’ll definitely help you out.
Observe, Don’t Stare
Always observe the woman you’re hitting on. Observe how she gestures, what her body language is like, the way she talks, what she does subconsciously. It helps you know your moves a little bit in advance, depending on your astute powers of observation, of course.
Play It Right
The fear of rejection, while approaching a woman, looms high and it can scare you into talking to any woman. But you need to understand, that rejection is a part of life and the only way to probably avoid it, is if you approach her politely and respectfully, rather than worrying about being funny or using a cheesy pick-up line.